Man Lies About His Wife Being Infertile, Asks Internet for Judgement

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    Font - My wife (32F) and I (32M) have been married for 7 years and been having unprotected sex for three years trying to have a baby. It has taken a toll on our marriage and I admit that many times I have complained to family, friends, and coworkers about my wife's infertility. What I thought was my wife's infertility. Maybe it is because we live in Utah but whenever the idea of us being infertile came up, people just swarmed in giving my wife recommendations to fertility specialists. The talk w
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    Font - And I believed it because my wife contracted TB when she was 20 and volunteering in another country. Her primary care who she saw when she was back home just flippantly told her that TB could effect the genital area and prevent her body from housing a baby (but obviously he said it in medical lingo.) We finally find a doctor who straight up told us that there was nothing wrong with her fallopian tubes, or her endometrium. She suggested I get tested to see that I'm not the problem. The ver
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    Font - I felt so shaken. And because a lot of people knew about our struggles, they also knew we went to a doctor again. At a family and friends gathering people started asking me about what we found out, and I just panicked and said that my wife's TB was likely the cause, but not 100 percent necessarily. People saw that as my wife being the problem and somebody even suggested I go through with divorcing her since I was 32 and complaining about being childless. Saying I could be a dad within a y
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    Font - What was worse was some people thought it wasn't even TB but a " bacterial genital disease." This all got back to my wife through a friend and she is furious. She said that she could not believe I've been painting her as the problem when she wasn't even the problem. And that she was tired of the pitying or disapproving looks she was getting in our small town and that I needed to set the record straight or at least tell everybody to shut up and that we are not divorcing. AITA? I panicked a
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    Font - Azul05_BeomSnake • 20 hr. ago YTA You are basically blaming your wife for the fertility problems from the start. You have never defended your wife from the bad comments that your friends and family have made. After finding out that the problem is you, you decide not to take responsibility and not be honest and continue your lie by making excuses that it was a moment of panic. I hope your wife divorces you, she deserves a husband who does defend her and love her.
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    Font - Positive Plum589 20 hr. ago YTA man. Wtf grow up. Your wife is being humiliated bc you won't tell the truth and you are really asking us if you are TA? 48.3K Reply ↑ Share
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    Font - 20 hr. ago YTA. This is not on your mom. I mean she's awful but so are you. And you DID completely lie all to protect your fragile ego. You owe your wife an enormous apology and you should in person tell every single person you lied. But of course you won't Reply Share Few-School-3869 3.9K 3.9K stop_spam_calls • 19 hr. ago Man if I was her I would be divorcing his ass. YTA.
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    Font - 5footfilly 19 hr. ago To be fair, I knew you were just an all around asshole as soon as I read this gem: "I admit that many times I complained to family, friends, and coworkers about my wife's infertility". Complained. As if your wife was a defective car and you paid full price. What an a- well, you know. So reading further, it wasn't much of a surprise to find out you're a liar to boot. Oh and too much of a coward to tell the truth after you lied about your wife. But I guess it's pretty
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    Font - 20 hr. ago The First Rule of Holes: When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging. BetAlternative8397 For God's sake, man up! You have a low sperm count. It happens. And there are ways you can still father a child. But you have left your wife exposed to lies and character assassination because your pride is damaged. Shame on you. YTA
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    Font - yeahyeahyeah6661 • 20 hr. ago YTA. You need to come clean to everyone now or just file the divorce papers because there is no coming back from that 1.6K Reply Share ...
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    Font - Charwyn Are you an absolute idiot? Three years and you didn't get tested SOONER? ● 19 hr. ago For THREE YEARS you blabbed about your wife's “problems” and it never crossed your kind that it's you who might be the issue there? YT biggest A imaginable. She needs a new husband 100%, this one misogynistic and stupid.
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    Font - 91 20 hr. ago Dancing Nancy381 YTA. Like, it's not even a question. So you've spent THREE YEARS shitting all over your wife to friends and family. Humiliating her over something that is incredibly personal and painful. Your behaviour has ensured that she gets unsolicited advice from friends and family, plus pitying looks. And SHE'S NOT THE PROBLEM. So then, you small, insecure, petty lump of a man panicked, and lied AGAIN. I hope she leaves you over this. You aren't a husband in any real
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    Font - Unhappy Temperature 18 20 hr. ago If this isn't a shit post, YT MAJOR A. Good lord. How did you type that all out and still be able to look yourself in the mirror?
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    Font - OU ggrandmaleo YTA. I'm glad it's you who's infertile because anyone who throws their spouse under the bus like that would not be a good parent. 214 Reply ↑ Share 19 hr. ago
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    Font - gay_Wonder_7597 YTA and you are so getting divorced and don't be shocked if she tells everyone that your the problem Reply ↑ Share 20 hr. ago 200
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    Font - 19 hr. ago YTA I hope your wife divorces you and has many children. You are so cruel to her you don't deserve her. 168 Reply ↑ Share mh6797
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    Font - dustyprocess 19 hr. ago YTA for turning it into a "who is the problem" situation in the first place. You're married - it's supposed to be you and your wife vs. the problem.
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    Font - Frigh ceebs87 19 hr. ago But my mom really screwed things up by making it malicious. You're still trying to pass the blame!!!! ALL OF THIS IS YOUR FAULT!!!! YTA and your wife should leave your lying, acting all superior ass
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    Font - Katana1369 • 19 hr. ago YTA. And pretty fucking pathetic. ↑ 128 Reply Share

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